12+ MONTHS BEFORE
- Announce your Engagement, discuss wedding expenses and set a budget
- Set a date “tip” be flexible as popular wedding dates may not be available
- Start looking for a location, venue or destination wedding package “tip” Hire a Travel Agent that is specialized in Destination Weddings, their expertise will guide you through the entire process and help you avoid any hiccups
- Explore your wedding vision: narrow down your selections, ceremony/reception location, time of day, symbolic or legal ceremony, estimated number of guests
- Develop your guest list and chose your Bridal Party
- Contract a location and venue (Reserve Your Date)
- Request Hotel Rates “tip” a experienced Travel Agent can negotiate the rates, review the contract and ensure you receive the best promotions.
- Secure a room Block “tip” review all contracts and terms, deposits and attrition
- Take Engagement Photos
- Design a Wedding Website
- Order your Save the Dates “tip” review verbiage with your wedding planner or Travel Agent to ensure all details are included
- Send your Save the Dates
9 - 12 MONTHS BEFORE
- Select your wedding package and formality for your wedding
- Review your estimated budget
- Sign up for Honeymoon Registry
- Begin clarifying your vision: theme, colors, little extras
- Start wedding dress shopping
- Obtain passport, if needed, and all travel documents for expiration dates
- Determine the forms needed for a legal ceremony (if applicable)
- Ask your brides maids and groomsmen to be in your wedding party
- Schedule a site visit if possible, you can preview your venue locations, and review wedding packages “tip” most resorts have a special package with discounted rates available – ask your travel agent or wedding coordinator
6-9 MONTHS BEFORE
- Chose and order invitations
- Shop for bride maids dresses
- Select and purchase a wedding dress
- Review the DJ, band, florist, photographers and videographer “tip” be sure to discuss with coordinator if booking outside vendors
- Order wedding party attire
- Determine what additional events, such as cocktail party, rehearsal dinner and day after brunch will be held
- Review your RSVP list and hotel rooming list
- Review you room block attrition policy
- Explore outside resort activities such as golf, spa and excursions
- Book airfare and encourage guests to book theirs as well
- Book your honeymoon or minimoon
2-3 MONTHS BEFORE
- Finalize guest list, request rooming list and room requirements such as final payments and name changes
- Confirm ceremony, reception, extras, and applicable promotions “tip” get everything in writing
- Select cake, décor and flowers
- Book ceremony musicians with coordinator
- Share with wedding coordinator any special readings or songs requested for the ceremony
- Finalize reception chart, seating chart, seat cards and send to coordinator
- Select your menu
- Book your rehearsal dinner
- For legal ceremonies, send completed paperwork to coordinator
- Obtain passports and get blood test if required by the destination
- Chose formal wear for the groomsmen
- Review or book your Airport transfers
- Begin wedding dress alterations
- Purchase bridal accessories like veils, shoes and jewelry
- Purchase gifts for bridal party and order items for your welcome bags for guests
- Select wedding bands
1-2 MONTHS BEFORE
- Book hair and makeup appointments for bride and bridal party
- Confirm all décor, floral, cake, and little extras with coordinator
- Confirm menus for all additional events (cocktail hour, rehearsal dinner, etc.)
- Have programs, menus, place cards, etc. printed
- Confirm timeline of event (seated for meal, first dance, father/daughter dance, cake cutting, etc.)
- Confirm that all special requests have been noted and planned for
- Prepare welcome bags for guests
- Write personal vows and toasts
- Schedule final dress fitting
- Celebrate all bachelor and bachelorette parties
- Be sure your wedding coordinator has your final rooming list
- Request your room comp statement if applicable
4 WEEKS BEFORE
- Make sure you and your guests have your Travel Documents
- Send guest list of those not staying at the resort to wedding coordinator
- Be sure the wedding coordinator has your travel schedule and final guest list, seating charts, and events
- Create a seating chart and place cards
- Double check all details with vendors, wedding coordinator, travel agent and finalize all your numbers
- Receive your room comps, if applicable
- Pick up your wedding dress
UPTO 2 WEEKS BEFORE
- Pack for the wedding
- Pack for the honeymoon
- Travel to your destination (based on the type of ceremony you will have)
- On-site meeting with coordinator to go over all event details and make any last-minute changes or additions, assist with marriage license and do a walk thru of your ceremony and reception site
- Have trial hair and makeup run through at salon, if desired
- Set up a spa day with bridesmaids, mother and other loved ones
- Book a manicure and pedicure for 1 day before
- Arrange for welcome bag room drop, if desired
- Arrange a private romantic dinner on the beach – just the two of you
- Leave your wedding dress and groom’s attire with coordinator to have steamed and prepared for the big day
- Prepare day of payments and tips
1 DAY BEFORE
- Enjoy your manicure and pedicure
- Have a welcome cocktail party, rehearsal dinner or welcome dinner, if desired
- Arrange for special room drops (champagne, flowers, petit fours) to be sent to parents or wedding party
- Bride & Groom: early night to bed! Tomorrow is the BIG DAY!
WEDDING DAY
- Have a nice breakfast
- Take your rings and marriage certificate to the ceremony site
- Go to your hair appointment; bring veil and flowers
- Your coordinator will check with you throughout the day as everything is organized
Today is YOUR day, and your coordinator will be with you throughout the entire day.
- RELAX and SMILE. Make the most of this memorable day!